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When I first met Alfredo, he was huddled in the corner of his kennel, trembling like a leaf. He looked so small and scared—like a cartoon character who had just wandered into the wrong scene. His little face wore an expression of uncertainty, as if he wasn’t quite sure he’d make it through the day. I knelt down, trying to look as unthreatening as possible, and softly said, “Hey, little guy. It’s okay.” (Watch full video above)
Moments like these are always bittersweet. On one hand, it’s heartbreaking to see such fear in a dog, especially one so young and tiny. But on the other hand, I’ve witnessed time and again how a little bit of love and patience can transform even the most frightened pups. Alfredo reminded me of my own kids in a way—so small, so vulnerable, and so completely reliant on the kindness of others. Somewhere along the way, someone had let him down. But today, I was determined to start earning back his trust.
Alfredo’s Story: From Busy Streets to a Safe Haven
This little male Maltese mix, thought to be around 10 months old, had just arrived at the shelter that morning when I spotted him in the halls. A good Samaritan had dropped him off in the night drop and left behind as much information as they could, including where he was found and their contact details. This likely pointed to them not being Alfredo’s owner, and given the circumstances, it’s fortunate they took the time to bring him in safely.
Alfredo was found on the road that runs right next to the shelter—a notoriously dangerous spot for small animals due to speeding cars and large vehicles. It’s a miracle he wasn’t injured. According to the health check notes, Alfredo had irritation on the base of his nose, long unkempt nails, saliva stains on his face, a slight overbite, and hairy ears that the staff recommended plucking to prevent infections. He also had no collar or microchip, suggesting he had been uncared for and likely living in neglect for some time.
Despite his rough condition, Alfredo still had a charming, cartoonish look. His slightly overgrown coat and overbite gave him a quirky personality, though it was clear he hadn’t been groomed or cared for in a while. Thankfully, Mel, the shelter groomer, stepped in to make him feel a bit more comfortable. Still, Alfredo was visibly fearful, shaking when approached and freezing like a deer in headlights when anyone came too close.
Earning Alfredo’s Trust, One Treat at a Time
The first thing I did was grab a treat. With dogs like Alfredo, who are skittish and unsure, it’s important to move slowly and avoid sudden motions. Instead of handing him the treat directly, I placed it on the ground and looked away. In situations like this, eye contact can feel intimidating to a scared dog. Using my phone as a sort of rear-view mirror, I saw Alfredo hesitantly step forward. His tiny nose twitched as he sniffed the treat, and then, in one swift motion, he snatched it and retreated.
“That’s progress,” I thought, smiling to myself. From there, I decided to use treats as a gateway to building trust. Each time Alfredo took one, I’d sit a little closer or hold the treat in my hand instead of placing it on the ground. It wasn’t long before I felt the softest little nose boop against my hand—a sign that Alfredo was starting to believe I wasn’t so scary after all.
One technique I’ve recently started using is smiling while offering treats. This idea came from Glenn, the trainer who helps us with some of the dogs at Flip’s Farm. The idea is simple but powerful: dogs can read facial expressions, and associating a smile with something positive (like a treat) helps them recognize friendly intentions. Alfredo’s reaction wasn’t immediate, but over time, I could see him beginning to relax. He even wagged his tail—a small but significant victory.
The Importance of Patience and Respect
One of the most crucial things I’ve learned over the years is that dogs like Alfredo need to be approached on their terms. In shelter environments, it’s common for people to rush in and scoop up a small dog, thinking they’re being comforting. But imagine being terrified and then suddenly lifted off the ground without warning. For many dogs, this kind of handling can create lasting fear.
Instead, I focused on slow, deliberate movements. I let Alfredo sniff my hand and even offered an open-hand treat to test his comfort level. At first, he hesitated, but eventually, he reached out and gently took the treat. This might seem like a small moment, but in the world of rescue dogs, it’s huge.
Alfredo’s shaking started to subside as his brain shifted from fear to curiosity. He began to engage his senses—sniffing the air, tasting treats, and observing his surroundings. This shift is a key step in helping fearful dogs find their confidence. When a dog’s brain is busy processing new stimuli, there’s less room for fear.
Naming Alfredo and Planning His Future
One of the lighter moments of the evening came when we started brainstorming names for Alfredo. His nickname was suggested by Kelly, inspired both by our love of food names and his creamy, light-colored coat—reminiscent of Alfredo pasta sauce. After tossing around a few ideas (including “Rupert”), we landed on “Alfredo.” It just seemed to fit his quirky personality and endearing overbite.
After some time together, I decided to try what we call “the scoop.” This technique involves gently lifting the dog while providing steady, comforting pressure, which can help ease their anxiety. Alfredo was understandably tense at first, but with patience and encouragement, he allowed me to hold him. His little body felt so fragile in my hands, but there was a warmth there—a glimmer of trust.
Next Steps for Alfredo: Flip’s Farm and Beyond
As the night went on, Alfredo began to show more of his personality. His overbite gave him a quirky, cartoonish charm, and his little tail wagged more frequently. Seeing him start to relax reminded me why I do what I do. Dogs like Alfredo deserve a chance to feel safe and loved, and I’m grateful to be part of their journey.
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